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A tale of two brothers

(This story is purely fictional, although I am sure that in the course of history it is very likely that something similar happened)

One day a husband and wife were blessed with a double miracle in the form of 2 identical twin sons.

Within the first 4 years of their lives it had become evident that God had blessed the boys with a raw talent in the arena of sports. In order not to pressure them, and to ensure that each son was given the opportunity to pursue their passion, the parents decided to see how these natural abilities would evolve over the course of the years.

Up until high school, both boys naturally participated in the same sports clubs and because of their God given gifts, they were able to excel to a level that eclipsed that of most of their peers. Fast forward a couple of years to high school.

In high school one of the brothers decided to drop out of sports and follow an interest in business studies. In the meaning his brother was relentlessly pursuing the improvement of his physical abilities. His average day consisted of the following routine:

  • 5:00AM – Wake up for 30 minute jog to the swimming pool
  • 5:40 – 6:40AM – 1 hour intense swimming
  • 12:00PM – 12:40PM – Gym session at school
  • 4:00PM – 6:00PM – Gym session at local YMCA

You get the point. This brother was taking the “time” and “effort” to hone a gift he was given. The other brother had found a new passion and although not given a natural gift for business, he was devoting his time to learn everything he could about business studies.

Fast forward 10 years. The brother who followed the athletic path, excelled above and beyond both his peers and his brother in the arena of athletics. His brother, who was still gifted in athletics, was still at a slightly higher athletic level than that of the average athlete, but he was an order of magnitude of skill lower than his brother and even other people who had not been given a gift for athletics but had spent years improving their physical makeup and developing themselves as athletes. He was now an accomplished businessman and had build and developed several successful businesses once he had graduated high school because it was something that he trained to do, and improved on continually.

What is the point of this story?? A lot of people ask me the question “How Do You Do It?” My first response to them is “What?”. They will continue by saying things like :

  • Maintain a healthy marriage for 11 years
  • Raise a family of 4 kids
  • Blog
  • Speak
  • Excel in particular areas of .Net

My answer to them is plain and very simple. Why is software any different that any other skill that a person chooses to pursue. I absolutely believe that there are people who are born with a natural gift to be able to write software. A gift left unopened is still a gift unrealized. If you are one of many developers who has acknowledged that software is a craft that you can choose to hone like any other skill; you will see that all these people out there who you currently consider as “experts” are no different than yourself. The only difference is that lots of the forerunners in the field have chosen to hone their skills in one or more areas to a level that helps them stand out from the crowd.

What does it mean to hone your craft in software development? In all honesty I truly feel that first and foremost it means writing a lot of code. Getting out of your comfort zone and solving a problem you have solved dozens of times before in a completely different way. Finding a group of peers who can challenge you in a friendly and competitive way to raise your own level of expectations for yourself.

There truly is very little magic when it comes to looking at anyone who has been able to excel in their field. From the people that I look upto, they all share the trait of pursuing excellence in the craft that they have chosen for their careers. Be that software development or not.


Posted Fri, Nov 16 2007 12:25 AM by bitwisejp
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Darwin wrote re: A tale of two brothers
on Fri, Nov 16 2007 2:59 AM

I dont think having 2 identical sons is much of a miracle to be honest...prob due to the egg splitting into two embryos after fertilization

As for an inbuilt talent....I think thats genetics rather than god

You're right about having to work at it though

Jonas wrote re: A tale of two brothers
on Fri, Nov 16 2007 3:11 AM

I dont' follow you on this. You say one of the brothers continued with athletics, the other started on his career as a business man. The athletics guy does A LOT of excercise and training, the business guy does not. And then you sounds surprised that the one doing A LOT of excercise and training is a better athlete???

You "argue" that skills is a gift you are born with, but tells a story where exercise does the whole difference... Maybe I'm mistaking something here, but it sounds like you got your story a little twisted?

Jeffrey Palermo wrote re: A tale of two brothers
on Fri, Nov 16 2007 7:27 AM

@JP,

Heh,  I'm one of those guys gifted in athletics.  I was always bigger and stronger, and my coaches wanted me to play college football, but I didn't have that passion.  I worked at being a programmer instead, and although it took a lot of work, it's paying off.

I forgot where I read this but I have found it to be true:  If you learn more than your peers with every passing day, then the sum knowledge will exceed your peers in the long run.  Most people learn little from day to day, so if you devote your time to study and practice, then each day puts you farther ahead, and it all adds up.

Work hard.  It pays.

Josh wrote re: A tale of two brothers
on Fri, Nov 16 2007 7:46 AM

It's interesting that the comments get caught in the story details - but miss the lesson.

It's the same thing I tell my kids when they say - "How do you do that, Papa?".... and I say "Practice"

Darwin wrote re: A tale of two brothers
on Fri, Nov 16 2007 8:33 AM

@Josh

I certainly got the message i.e hard work is the key......I just don't think invoking supernatural entities is valid in a technical blog

The most recent evidence seems to suggest that having a natural intelligence tends to be a hindrance as many super intelligent people "fall back" on their natural ability and do not try and push themselves

As Thomas Edison said  "genius is 99 percent perspiration and 1 percent inspiration"

Trux wrote re: A tale of two brothers
on Fri, Nov 16 2007 10:34 AM

There is even scientific evidence that backs you up: experts are made, not born. Put in the time, see the results.

see scientificamerican.com/article.cfm

Billy wrote re: A tale of two brothers
on Fri, Nov 16 2007 11:26 AM

Jean-Paul, I've got to agree with Darwin on this (in both entendres), I understand your point - work hard to get better - but it comes across as misconstrued and faith-based in your post.  Technical blogs, especially one with the global, diverse readership of codebetter.com, should be secular and purely technology based.  Not all of your readers agree with such faith-oriented sentiments expressed in this post.  Joey would disagree with me here (j/k Joey ;), but closed, development focused blogs are no place for preaching gospel (either implied or explicit).

I love your technical ideas and you and I have helped each other much over the past couple of years, but I cringe whenever I see "the good word" being delivered amongst development communications.  It's hard enough for me to keep religion from being sold to me elsewhere; I certainly don't want it from codebetter.com.

joeyDotNet wrote re: A tale of two brothers
on Fri, Nov 16 2007 12:19 PM

Hey Billy,

Well since you brought me into it, I"ll just chime in with this...  :D

I can't speak for JP, but I know for me, my faith in Jesus Christ as my personal savior is a very real thing that influences all areas of my life, including my work ethic in a big way.  I fail to see how JP is trying to "sell religion" by posting a fictional story that mentions a God-given gift.

But if you want to continue this discussion, feel free to contact me directly.

Garry Shutler wrote re: A tale of two brothers
on Fri, Nov 16 2007 2:00 PM

Would changing the birth from being a double miracle to being an amazing event and their gifts from God given to a happy coincidence from the combination of the mother and father's DNA make any difference to the moral of the story? No.

Please don't get caught up in semanatics.

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Darwin wrote re: A tale of two brothers
on Mon, Nov 19 2007 2:48 AM

@Gary - actually yes it would make a huge difference...stating something is God given effectively states that there is no reason to look any further into its cause

When written in a blog post which is about pushing yourself every day to achieve greatness I think it is absolutely valid to bring it up as it dilutes JPs excellent message....dont sit back, dont rest on your laurels, dont take it as absolute when someone says it is God given

I just think with the ability of religion to offend an entire pantheon of people its probably wisest to leave it out when talking about something it doesnt necessarily have anything to do with

But at the end of the day Id rather JP blog and mention God than not blog at all (now that really would be a waste)

dave^2=-1 wrote "There are no smart guys, there's only us"
on Fri, Feb 1 2008 5:22 AM

Today's post is dedicated to El# (hi mate! :-) ), with whom I have had many conversations about this

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